Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Time for a Break

As i sit down here to compose this post, many things come to mind. The first thing that comes to mind is the reason I started blogging in the first place which was to meet new and interesting people that I could interact with and be myself. To that extent, I have succeeded. However, somewhere along this journey that I have taken, I found mysself wanting more than just online friends.
I know that many of you that are out here in blogland have experienced similar situations and so you know where I'm coming from. I have spent the last several days trying to come to grip with the fact that at my age and body type and the fact that I'm currently married with children will no doubt put me out to pasture as far as ever eing able to have a true relationship filled with compassion and love that so many of us desire.
I would also like to take this oppurtunity to thank the 21 followers that I do have who found my writings to date interesting enough to want to follow me. My thoughts and prayers go out to Landyn, who is currently struggling with parents, housing, schooling, and basically just survival. My good friend Deadwing, who has taken the first step to freedom by coming out to his family and close friends at work, but who still struggles with trying to find a companion to spend the rest of his life with.
Bob, with whom I have met with and conversed with personally, you are the greatest friend and ally that a gay man could ever have. Keep up the good work. Mirrorboy, who has had his own share of problems that come his way, and at the tender age of 16, manages to hold this little community together. There are several more of you out here who I haven't mentioned by name but please know that I think of you every day.
I hope that one day, we can all live as equals, here in the human race. I will continue to read your blogs and follow your lives as much as you allow me to but for the time being, I'm going to put mine on hold until I can figure out what I want to do with it.

Forever Alone,


  1. Oh man.... too many people are leaving!!


    I'm sorry to hear that you won't continue blogging, but I understand completely, at least I think I do. I hope everything works out for you somehow, one day soon, and you find everything you are looking for, especially happiness and love. Do keep us posted on your travels, literally and figuratively. Best wishes, stay safe, have fun, and all that.


  2. I've loved our exchanges and the particular and individual view you've brought to things.

    For that and for your gentle friendship - thank you!

    I'll likely remember your travelling style among many other things and can only say 'Bon Voyage' through life and if you perchance should comment on a blog near me one day, you know you'll be most warmly welcome.

    Good luck - and, above all things, enjoy life!

    It's Getting Better!

  3. I'm going to miss reading, but I certainly hope we have the opportunity to chat more - thanks for sharing everything up to now, I have gained great comfort knowing there are others out there that are in a similar situation to me

  4. Jayson, everyone needs a break sometimes. Take all the time you need to figure out where you're going.

    I don't think it's too late for you. I really don't.

  5. Jayson

    Im always sad by a freind leaving. i hope you stay in contact and always take care and be safe my friend


  6. hey Jayson, i really hope you manage to sort out your conundrum - i don't imagine it will be easy, but i really wish you the best of luck with it and hope you find inner peace. hope to see you posting again.

    take care

  7. Sadness. :(

    I hope you find your meaning. Good luck. :)


  8. omg jayson don;t leave me please


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